There is no love in most Indian marriages

since they are mostly arranged says a nephew who was born in USA. It is not clear to me what love is and what are the signs with which it can verified though it is proclaimed in the so called 'love marriages'. I assume that may be there is a skip in the hear beat or some sort of thrill when one sees the other whcih is a bit hard to verify after one is married, since one sees the other so often and in expected places. I wonder whether one can test by what happens when one sees each other unexpecedly. That happenned to me today.